Confused !!!!

Ok listen. I have and noone has say in who comes in or out of this caln but shankd , am i right? Well if so why did soul become our df leader and not harm.? Im just asking not nothing on soul but harm gotten into our family being a leader of df. Dont you think its messed up if soul comes out of no where taking it away.? Harm was pretty happy and seems alil mad now. I told him he was still it because i didnt know that zig was a leader now and could say what . So all im saying is please let me know whos a leader whos has rights to say who comes and go, kk thanks alott. Btw Why is zig our leader and not me or &&?